I get a lot of stares. Eyes don’t just hold me a bit longer than normal, heads turn to track my path down the street. And this is completely ok; most of the time it doesn’t bother me, and I knew this would probably happen. It’s a strange feeling though, to know you’re being watched. It’s another level of consciousness, and while I’m certain some of it is rooted my own insecurity, I am suddenly very aware of my movements and how I must look walking down the road with my backpack and camera bag. And it’s a bit awkward, especially when I meet the eyes of the people I pass by. So to break this stiff scrutiny (on both our parts), I started doing something nobody ever seems to expect: I smile and wave. And what I didn’t expect? As soon as I engage, without a moment’s hesitation their faces break out into truly some of the most genuine smiles I’ve ever seen. Smiles that quite frankly, I don’t think I would get from a stranger back at home. They look so happy, which only makes me grin even more. It’s simple, but it undeniably brightens my mood. I wave, they wave back. I smile, they smile back. That’s all.
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3 thoughts on “Snapshot: the Smiles”
Wonderful!!!!
So glad you came up with the smile idea and now can be more at ease with the people. Proceed with caution however.
Oh Marina, that is such a natural response! Yes, a smile and a wave, so simple a communication, that’s how you bring worlds together.